Dating christian girl not virgin

Yes, I am young, but I want to find the wife of my youth.

In other words (assuming you yourself are a virgin and not regularly engaged in other forms of sexual immorality), you are right to be frustrated at the sexual immorality you see, and it's quite understandable for you to feel hurt at the notion of marrying a woman who has sinned against you by having sex before her marriage to you.

The biblical standard applies to all and does not change with cultural preferences.